If you search for the meaning of a lipstick lesbian or butch on the web, you’ll get a combination of suggestions. From a tomboy little girl who doesn’t play with dolls and enjoys playing sports, who then becomes a butch lesbian. Or a female who loves wearing dresses and being feminine is a Lipstick lesbian. At an early age, society associates chores with gender. If you dislike upholding female gender duties, this may be a wonderful suggestion that you are not as feminine as society wants you to be. And that’s OK to be a butch lesbian.
However, lipstick lesbians may not mind the female gender duties as they are usually more feminine duties. This just implies that anything associated with femininity or being “ladylike” is difficult to add to because your interest lies elsewhere. A way to tell if you are a Lesbian tomboy or butch is, you are least interested in knowing how to apply makeup. How to contour or pick your right lipstick color maybe even less exciting. More than likely, you are all-natural most of the time and that’s definitely a benefit because hair and make-up are time-consuming. However, lipstick lesbians may like to apply make-up such as lipstick.
In addition, hairstyles that require curling irons or hair straighteners are not so appealing to all butch lesbians. However, putting on a hat, or wearing a ponytail or cornrows maybe your version of having your hair done.
You prefer to just be comfortable than have “trendy styles” any day of the week. For some butch lesbians, life is simpler when you do not have to bother with either hair or make-up.
Butch lesbian fashion apparel is more athletic streetwear than skirts or dresses that lipstick lesbians wear. If you had to choose between women’s tight-fitting clothing and men’s casual button-down shirts, pants, and shorts, the choice would be obvious. And when it comes down to fashion accessories, you care less about necklaces and bracelets, purses, or belly chains. Your preference may be just a watch and your wallet, and you’re all set to go.
For some reason or the other, tomboys are hardly ever shown in the media and the lack of role models is unsatisfactory as there are many tomboys out there, and more need to be seen regularly. Yet it’s soothing to know that there’s a unique, unmentioned club around for those of us who do not rather fit in with the status quo.
Now, to really tell if you are a Lesbian tomboy, you are all the things mentioned above, but you fantasize about being with a girl. And you fantasize quite a lot. You often daydream whether the female you see looking at you is attracted to you and you may want t get to know her more intimately.
After reading this article, we hope you gained some confidence in identifying as a Lesbian tomboy. And if you’re single, the next time you see a girl you are attracted to, give it a go. She may just be looking for a Lesbian tomboy.